got this off a guys site haha. had nothing better to post so advice for guys ;P
The Rule Book for Guys
the top 10 rules are ;]
1. Smile : remember to smile constantly, while your talking, while your observing, while your doing just about anythting. Smiling is the most powerful weapon in any guy`s arsenel. It let`s the gurl know that your probably a fun guy to be around and someone they would like to know or be involved with.
2. While kicking game to a gurl : constantly repeat her name, it`s like music to their ears. For example "So where are you from, Jen?" instead of "Where are you from?"
3. Always compliment a gurl : They will always feel good about you, but don`t overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points. Try to sound sincere and give her a unique compliment on something that most people with overlook. Flatter will get you somewhere ;]
4. Always change the amounts of attention you give her : Give her your undivided attention for an extended period of time one day, and appear to be too busy to even talk to her the next. This will drive her crazy, and you will be on her mind the entire day. She might be wondering if she said or did something wrong, and she will become more interested in you because you won`t be able to think about anything else.
5. Every wonder why you never leave a club with a gurl you`ve just me? : Gurls at clubs tend to be 100% more attracted to men on the dance floor, even if they don`t dance and are less attractive then the boy sitting/standing around. Learn how to dance! ;D
6. Never say "How about giving me your number?" : always use something like "I`d like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at ?". This always sounds much better because she must avoid saying "No" or she will sound stupid because that there is no number she can be reached at. It also makes you look more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.
7. Always wear cologne : and not like cheap cologne like preffered stock. If you want to spark a gurl`s interest, buy a bottle of the good stuff ;D
8. Quit wroking about what to say next and focus your attention on listening : She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you what to say next. For example: "How are you doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my way home from work, so i guess I`m doing alright." She just gave you 2 leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about, all you gotta do is pick one.
9. When rejected: just smile and walk away. Who cares what she thinks, you probably won`t see her again anyways. Besides, it`s her loss, she just missed out on a good time for free with a great guy. Go out looking to get rejected because once you become comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. Remember that the guy who gets rejected the most is the guy who leaves with the most numbers ;]
10. Never talk to much : don`t bring up subjects that will be boring to her, let her initiate the topics of discussion and do most of the talking while you just relate yourself to her statements like saying "Me too." This will make the 2 of you seem like you have a lot in common and her opinion of you will shoot through the roof.
WAIT THERE`S MORE!
Apperance Rule`s !
Variety is the key! switch up your hair style, cologne, and outfits on a regular basis. Gurls love guys that can not be predicted. You don`t want to be viewed as being boring. Do you?
Always wear cologne!
Gurls are attracted to courageous Guys! Never appear to be afraid of anything. If you are a wuss and you can`t help it, Avoid situations that may produce confrontations.
Always iron your clothes before you go out. You never know who you`ll turn into. Having wrinkles on your clothes can greatly effect how attractive gurls find you? WHY DO YOU THINK WOMEN FIND GAY GUYS SO ATTRACTIVE ?
If you don`t know what to wear, observe other guys from the club and see what there wearing =) (Only the guys picking up gurls ;D)
You gotta walk right! Mantain a good posture. Your walk greatly reflects on how confident you are. Gurls love confidence! Remember to keep your chest out and shoulder back. This will make you appear wider and stronger than you are.
Always have breath mints or gum on you at all times! If you are talking to a gurl and she smells bad breath, SAY GOOD BYE FROM YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING A KISS FROM HER !
Almost done!
Relationship Rules!
When asked "What are you doing?" never reply with nothing, always appear to be busy even if your NOT! This will make you seem to be much more interesting
Never stay on the phone for a long period of time (Unless a seurious relationship has already been formed) or you will appear to be boring because you have nothing better to do so.
Never act submissive because you want to be the "Nice guy". Stand up for yourself and don`t get used. Don`t become the Jerk either, the goal is to be likable while also showing ways of expressing yourself and opinions.
NEVER EVER AND I MEAN NEVER! say I LOVE YOU FIRST! if you say these 3 words to early, you can easily change a great relationship into an uncomfortable one and possibly destroy it.
ALWAYS KEEP THINGS HAPPENING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP =) NO I DON`T MEAN SEXUALLY! always try something new. It`s easier to steal someone else`s gurl than it is to keep your own ;]!
Never act seurious at the beggining of a new relationship. You might have strong feelings early on, but you don`t want to scare your dream gurl away by coming to strong. Just try to relax and have fun while your allowing your relationship to blossom at a steady slow pace ;].
When going on the first date, Never go to a club or movie! you want to spend this time talking to her and using the skills you`ve learned. Take her somewhere fun! This will lighten the tention and make both of you comfortable
Never attempt to have sex! unless you know for sure she is comfortable with it! if you try and fail , chances are she will be extremely uncomfortable around you! She probably might never return your calls or avoid you completely! |